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Why do we hate?

Lately I heard news about hatred actions. Hate the gays, hate them who are different from us. Hate them who have different faith. Hate them who praise different God. Hate them who don't do things the way we want to. Hate them who hurt us. Hate them in the past, don't bring them to present. Hate them. Screw them.

Why?

I think nothing good ever comes from hatred. It gives us negative feelings, bad emotion, bad mood, bad attitude, etc. Nothing good that hatred can give us. Nothing at all.

If some people are different from us, just appreciate it. If they praise different God, just let them because it's a human right. If they have different faith, just appreciate and let them have that faith because there's nothing to do with us. They don't disturb people with their differences. They just want to have such faith, praise such God, because they want to. Why do we hate them? What have they done to us? Hurt us? No! Disturb us? No! Insult us? No!
What do we hate them for, then?

If some people have different sexuality, they love people from same gender, just let them. Appreciate them. Help them get through the hard times. Don't hate them, because what do we hate them for? They don't diss us with their sexuality. They don't disturb us with their activities. They just love people from same gender. If we hate them, furthermore do things against them, will it help them? Will it change their sexuality? I guess No. So why do we hate them? What do we hate them for?

If some people do things the way they want to, which are sometimes against our way, just let them as long as they don't disturb or harm everyone else nor anything else. Remember, everyone is never like any others. Everyone is special in his/her own way, everyone is allowed to have whatever will they wish to have. Everyone is allowed to do things by their own way. As long as they don't disturb nor harm everything, why do we hate them? What do we hate them for?

If some people hurt us in the past, just let them. Don't bully nor diss them in the present. Things have happened in the past, and past will just be past. There's nothing to do with the present. We must learn to forgive. Maybe we can't forget, but we must forgive. Forgive and let go, don't discuss about what they did to us again. Because keep hating them won't give us anything good. It won't change the past. Especially if they have apologized to us, why do we still hate them? What do we hate them for?

If some people hate us, don't reply it by hating them back. Instead, look back to ourselves. Find things that might made them hate us. We, human, can't escape from doing terrible things to people, that is why we must always fix and fix ourselves everytime we realize what we did was wrong. Don't hate back, just come up with the new better version of ourselves. Instead of hating them back, don't you think we actually owe many thanks to them? Because of they hate us, we can look to ourselves and find out what we have done wrong. We can be a better person because they hate us! So, why do we hate them? What do we hate them for?

Start from now on, stop hating. Always put in our mind to live with NO HATE. Just bring positive energy to the world, have a positive mind and heart, love others, appreciate others, care to others. And make this world a better place for everyone :)

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It's Left Unspoken

Dear Readers :)

About some months ago I was introduced to a man. He was amazing, adorable, kind, sweet, and has everything I could ask for. He loved me, cared about me, considered my opinions and words, and was sweet to me.

We decided to date finally. It went well like unbroken, I felt so right with him. His name is included in my last name, that's what I always see as 'sweet coincidence'. I liked him, and I loved spending my time chatting, texting, or talking with him on phone.

Too bad, we rarely met. I was always screaming so loud in Twitter if he was not around or contacting me. I was upset when he didn't respond to my tweets (and responded his friends instead) and acting as if I wasn't important when he preferred hanging out with his friends instead of visiting me at home or asking me out.

He couldn't stand it, neither could I. He couldn't sacrifice me for his business and friends. I held on, didn't want to break up, but what else can I do when he has given up? Nothing. I saw a glimpse of our worse future, when he really might abandon me worse or I might yell louder if we kept the relationship, that made me quit holding on and just gave up as well.

I don't regret that we broke up. I don't mind that he now hates me for I keep criticizing him in Twitter (sharply). I don't care.

I only regret that we never told each other how we love each other. It's okay that he didn't, but that I never said 'I love you' to him feels terrible. I want him to know that I decided to date him because I fell in love with him, not because I just want a partner to date.

I twat that I love him, but I never mentioned him. So many times. But still, I never told him directly that I love him.

I fell in love with some men right now, but what I feel for him seems to stay. I am holding on and moving on at the same time. I am facing it, I will not runaway.

'"I love you" remains unspoken. If I had a chance, I might take it just to tell you, no matter how you will react to it.'

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