Exposing Clothes and Self-Appreciation

Coworker A: you'll look better if you button that part of your shirt.

Coworker B: why should I? This shirt is should be worn like this.

Coworker A: yeah, but you must respect yourself by buttoning it.

Coworker B: what?

Then I checked of how Coworker B wore her shirt, turn out she wore a tanktop before her shirt, which made her unbutton her shirt.

How do you respect yourself?

This question is more like for girls. I wonder, if we wore clothes exposing our skin, why are we judged as 'not respecting ourselves' or even 'bitchy?

We just wore it because we love it. We feel comfortable. We are confident with our body shape, and we want to show the world that what we have is beautiful. Maybe some of us wore it just for exposing to attract guys, but what about the rest of us?  Do you think that all the girls who wore clothes exposing skin are bitches?

How about the inside of us? You don't consider it, just because we wore exposing clothes?

Dressing up is important, to show the world how you respect yourself. That is why there are  jobs called 'fashion stylist' and 'fashion designer'. Designers are here to design clothes for typical occassions. The stylists know how to choose clothes for typical occassions. We don't have to be certified designers or stylists to be fashionable. Fashionable alone means wearing proper clothes according to the occassions. When you're relaxing at home, you can wear your tee and shorts. When you go to a party, wear your dress or tuxedo. When you go holiday in a beach, wear swimsuits or hotpants + tee.

When we are wearing proper clothes, no matter it is exposing or not, in a proper occassion, don't you think it's enough?

And you can't judge us like that. If we keep trying to act good towards others, does it still matter what we wear? Maybe we won't perform perfectly, but at least we don't try to hurt others without reason. And does it still matter of what we wear?